Sunday Sermon - June 1, 2008

Let the Children Come
Mark 10:13-16
Dr. Michael Dent, Trinity UMC, Denver, CO

            It was quite a party!  There were 200 children from all over the United States!  They came to Houston, Texas on a Sunday night.  Ranging in age from 3-13 years, the children all had one thing in common: Each of them was living with cancer.  Now they were together at a party sponsored by the American Cancer Society.  They were together at the plush Four Season Hotel in downtown Houston.  They were together in excitement when a special guest arrived!  Casually attired in an open collar sport shirt and sport coat, the President of the United States quickly became the center of attention in the crowd of children.

            “What do you do?  What kind of car do you drive?  How old are you?  How much do you weigh?  What is your bowling average?  Do you like your job?  Do you hope to keep it?”

            Those were the questions the children with cancer asked President Bill Clinton Sunday evening, February 6, 1994.  One of the children, 3-year-old Timothy West, a leukemia patient from Anchorage, Alaska, gave a big bear hug to the leader of the free world.  I was living in Houston at the time and I remember the front page of the CHRONICLE carried a color picture of the President surrounded by colorfully clad boys and girls, each with the artistic creation of a face painter emblazoned on a cheek.  Mr. Clinton himself was grinning from ear to ear as a small African-American child sat in his lap and reached up to touch the President’s face.

            Go back with me 2,000 years.  A similar scene is recorded in scripture.  The most powerful person in the world was surrounded by children!  Mothers and fathers of the children, perhaps some of them suffering with cancer or other diseases, were bringing their sons and daughters to Jesus of Nazareth that he might touch them.

            When the children were brought, the disciples of Jesus got mad.  They started to act like the President’s Secret Service bodyguards.  They tried to shield and protect Jesus.  They thought he was tired, that he did not need or want to be disturbed.  They loved Jesus and knew that touching and healing others took its toll on him.  So the faithful followers of the Lord began to shout, “Get those kids out of here!  Jesus doesn’t have time to be messing with little children!  The Master is tired and needs his rest!”

            When Jesus saw the boys and girls being pushed aside, he was upset with his disciples.  In fact, he declared to them in no uncertain terms, “Let the children come to me; don’t try to stop them.  For to such little ones belongs God’s kingdom.  And I tell you this: You have to receive the kingdom of God as a little child to really know what it is all about.”  Then, in perhaps what is the most tender picture anywhere in the Bible, St. Mark tells us Jesus “took the children up in his arms, laid his hands on them and blessed them.”
            “LET THE CHILDREN COME,” Jesus said.  WHY did he say that?  What was the real message behind the command?  Why did Jesus go against the prevailing thought of his day that children were somehow second class citizens?  On this special Children’s Day at Trinity Church, let’s think together briefly about three things I believe Jesus was saying as he commanded that the children be allowed to come to him, as he affirmed them with words and blessed them with hugs!

            First, by saying “Let the children come,” Jesus is declaring that CHILDREN BELONG!  Our Lord is asserting unequivocally through words and actions that children belong, they have a prominent place in God’s family!

  1. That is why we as United Methodists join the majority of Christian communities around the world in practicing infant baptism.
  2. That is why young children are invited and included when we celebrate the sacrament of Holy Communion.
  3. That is why we have a children’s moment in worship.
  4. That is why we have a Director of Children’s Ministries on our staff.
  5. That is why we have this service today!

Children belong in worship because of what they both give and receive here. If it is true what developmental psychologists tell us that a majority of our personality and approach to life is determined by our experiences in the first 4-6 years of life, then what better place for children to be than in worship?  The ancient writer of Proverbs knew this when he wrote, “Train up a child in the way he should do, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” A contemporary corollary to that wisdom saying is, “Train up a child in the way he should go – and go that way yourself!”

Children are God’s good gifts who belong to God’s family.  Here they not only learn the Lord’s Prayer and the Doxology, but also they learn to love God as God loves them, and to love their neighbors as themselves.

 

In saying “Let the children come,” Jesus is also emphatically saying CHILDREN ARE VALUABLE!  Inside these holy walls we say children are important, significant, and valuable.  But what happens outside this house of God gives another message.  The world may say it loves children, but the numbers are alarming:

  1. Every year over 1,500 children in this country died of abuse or neglect – 78% of these children 3 years old or younger.
  2. Every year 905,000 children in the US are abused or neglected – in the hour we are in worship this morning another 103 children will suffer abuse/neglect
  3. 1 in 10 children in this country has no health insurance
  4. 4.5 million children here have unmet dental needs because their families cannot afford dental care  
  5. 13 million children, or 1 in 6, live in poverty
  6. 5 children will murdered in the US today – that’s 1,800 a year
  7. Every 29 seconds a student in the US drops out of high school – 1m/year
  8. Every 25 seconds a child runs away from home or is abandoned

A recent study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association revealed that most children who are killed in alcohol-related car crashes are riding in the car with the drinking driver, and are not passengers in cars hit by drunken drivers.  And who are these intoxicated adults who kill children in these crashes?  As you can sadly deduce, 64% of them are the parents or caregivers of the children.  Only 18% of the 5,555 children killed in the crashes studied were wearing a seatbelt or were in a safety seat.

How Jesus must weep with families who have to bury a child!  Children are valuable, Jesus is saying in this text!  We are called to do all we can in the church and the community:
            To protect and provide for them;
            To encourage and enable them;
            To support and share with them;
            To teach and take care of them;
            To love and to listen to the little lambs among us!
What are you doing that says, “CHILDREN ARE VALUABLE”?  How can you help a child see he or she has value simply because he or she is?
            Some of you teach children’s Sunday School 2-4 Sundays a month.
            Some of you are planning and will lead this month’s Vacation Bible School.
            Some of you teach in our unique Early Childhood Music ministry
            Some of you lead, support or play with our children’s voice and bell choirs
            Some of you are involved in community programs that care for children

            Can one person make much of a difference with children?  When I was the pastor of Bellaire UMC in Houston, we had a member named Betty Stephenson.  Betty was an anesthesiologist and was elected president of the Texas Medical Association.  Dr. Stephenson helped launch a campaign called, “A Shot Across Texas.”  It was an immunization effort to ensure that all children across the Lone Star State were vaccinated for mumps, measles, diphtheria, and whooping cough.  This Methodist physician was following in the footsteps of the Great Physician, living out her faith and doing something concrete out of the conviction that children are valuable.
           

            Third and finally, in word and deed, Jesus is saying, CHILDREN ARE ROLE MODELS!  Children have much to teach us about innocence, trust, vulnerability, openness, simplicity, spontaneity, creativity, and honesty. 

            One Sunday morning at a small rural church in North Carolina, a kindergarten girl saw the pastor leaving to go to another church on the preaching circuit.  “Where are you going?” she asked.
            With a twinkle in his eye, he replied, “Why, I’m going to heaven!”
            After looking first at him and then his car, she replied bluntly, “Not in THAT car!”
            One Saturday afternoon a boy was watching his pastor father write a sermon.  “How do you know what to say?” the child asked.  “Why God tells me,” came the reply.
            His son answered, “Oh, then why do you keep crossing things out?”
            Children have a bunk detector – a way of seeing through all the pretense, the show, the games, the things adults do to impress.  They have a way of telling it like it is, of seeing to the heart of the matter.

            Children bring life and hope to others.  Remember the story in John 6 when a child shares his lunch with Jesus.  Jesus takes, breaks, shares and multiplies the boy’s gift so that a hungry crowd is fed.  Life and hope were given through Christ and the child!

            Jesus said, “Let the children come…for whoever does not receive my Father’s kingdom with the openness, the trust and the joy of  a child will not enter it.”

            Friends, children are role models to us!  They remind us of  Jesus’ lesson, there are no grown-ups in heaven – only those who see life and God with the eyes of a child!

            In his book God Must Have a Sense of Humor, David Steele has a poem entitled “Let the Children Come.”  It sums up well this service and message by the same name:
            There’s nothing so nice as some children.
            Every family should have one or two.
            They are such a fine race   When they’re kept in their place
            Say…the nursery, the park or the zoo.

            In her place a young child is delightful,
            Full of fun, a most interesting buddy;
            But her yearning for action  Can cause a distraction
            When she has invaded the study.

            The office is no place for children
            They foul up our work with their fun.
            So we make it a rule  That they must go to school
            So their elders can get something done.

            Some children came searching for Jesus.
            His friends were distressed…and inclined
            To think would be terrible  To have a fresh parable
            Suddenly slip from His mind.

            So they tried to get rid of the children,
            Surely no major disgrace;
            Protecting their master  From some great disaster
            By keeping the children in place.

            “Let the children in,” Jesus shouted,
            And said something frightfully odd.
            “They are bearers of grace  And their ultimate place
            Is right smack in the kingdom of God.”
           
So the place of a child is the Kingdom!
            That’s what he so carefully taught.
            So the last time you did play  Some ball with your kid
            You were closer to God than you thought.